I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my body. And when I say ‘lately’ I’m talking about say … oh the last 15 years. Thinking about it. About how to make it thinner, slimmer, leaner, tighter, faster, stronger … how to make it look more like the models that constantly walk through my studio door look. Being only 5’4”, with knobbly knees, a broad nose and thighs that can plant a mean side kick, it should have dawned on me already that I’m never going to look like the willowy models I love to hate. I’d need a body double for that.
But I still think about it. And I know that most females I know do the same. You don’t mean to. It just … happens. And now that the temperature is rising, cut off’s are becoming more and more cut off, bikini tops are the new top and as Australia’s ‘naked summer’ hits full swing, it seems an ever present and ongoing dialogue about bodies and body image are littering our conversations on a far too regular basis.
I was just reading an article in the latest Details Magazine, with super-man model, David Gandy, who has fronted so many Dolce & Gabbana campaigns I’ve lost count, talking about his ongoing struggle to attain and maintain perfection. In his interview he says “I don’t particularly like much of my body. I’m very critical of myself. I think I’m pretty much a perfectionist in anything that I do so I am never going to be happy. I’m not saying it’s a good thing, believe me.” Turns out men are developing as much of an obsession with their bodies as women … and really super hot men at that.
The fact that David Gandy can’t look in the mirror and get a bit of a crush on himself is definitely a sign that perspective has been lost! I can’t remember the last time I saw someone look this good in a picnic blanket. So David, I think you are deluded. Stupid even. And maybe that’s something worth thinking about … we all get a bit stupid about this stuff sometimes. So today, and tomorrow and hopefully the next day I’m going to resolve to be less stupid and remind myself that hey, I may not have pins that will land me on a Victoria Secret catwalk in angel wings and a G-string, BUT should it be required, I can certainly let rip a stellar side kick … and what willowy model do you know can say that ?
Peace & Being Less Stupid
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David Gandy for Details Magazine, Nov 2011











